A Necessary Decision
The following days were a whirlwind of appointments and talks with his parents, Mark and Liselott. Jarred made the difficult decision to have his right leg amputated above the knee. It would give him the best chance of beating osteosarcoma a second time.
Rather than feeling sorry for himself, Jarred says he felt grateful.
“I had been on social media, and I haven’t seen a lot of people with osteosarcoma that actually get to keep their leg,” he says. “So, it was kind of a blessing that for that first year and a half, I still had it. It seemed like a fair trade, I guess: Give up my leg to get rid of the cancer.”
Jarred had the amputation in November 2022, just 10 days after he learned of the recurrence. “The consensus was that the osteosarcoma was going to keep coming back,” Mark says. “We needed to remove the source.”
More Bad News
Following his surgery, the Meyers reached out to OSI Connect — the Osteosarcoma Institute’s free service that allows patients to consult with an osteosarcoma expert — to help them figure out what to do next. The OSI’s Director, Lee Helman, MD, connected them with UT Southwestern pediatric oncologist Patrick Leavey, MD. The Meyer family immediately felt Jarred was in good hands. Still, the news they received next sent them reeling: Even with the amputation, Jarred’s chances of survival are low.
“On the one hand, we are very thankful for the recommendation from OSI Connect,” Mark says. “Dr. Leavey won our trust, and we will work with him now going forward. On the other hand, we learned the awful truth, which is that patients with a recurrence of osteosarcoma have only a 15% chance of long-term survival.”
Although the news was extremely difficult to hear, Jarred appreciated Dr. Leavey’s candor.
“I wanted him to tell it to me straight, and he did. He said he would be surprised to see me back in a year with no issues.”
In December, Jarred started oral chemotherapy. Each month, he receives scans to check for metastasis.
“It’s tough, because it feels like a waiting game,” he says. “I get a scan this month and it might be good, but next month it might not be. It just pulls on you. You don’t know how to plan your future, so you just gotta keep going.”
Carrying On
Rather than give up, Jarred has decided to live his life as normally as possible. He works for an audio/visual company, and whenever chemotherapy doesn’t get in the way he gladly returns to work. Chloe continues to carry on as well, supporting Jarred at every appointment and during every bout of nausea.